Wedding Song - God Knew That I Needed You

Showing posts with label widow & friendships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label widow & friendships. Show all posts

Thursday, November 17, 2022

THEY WANT TO KNOW

Tonight, when I spend time with my Jam Session Friends, I'll be sharing this personal background with them …

‘I Am Never Alone’ Post: https://jeastofeden.blogspot.com/2019_11_17_archive.html

They want to know what make me strong: I tell them Yeshua's constant love makes me strong – that confuses them, so I hope they {get it} tonight.

I also tell them that my husband's love still fires my jets; and that love still instills strength in me. Bob was the only human love I ever knew. In my whole life, only Bob ever truly loved me unconditionally. Bob taught me the meaning of love. I have said before ... and I repeat ... Bob, in my life, is WHY I am "a better person" today. Bob was only human (and sometimes humanly imperfect), but he exampled the love of Elohei so beautifully. I am ever thankful Elohim brought us together in 1974, and blessed our 44 years together with a love that still stands strong.

First year I saw this handsome fella; Fall, 1967. He held my heart then ... he holds my heart, now.
Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers – ‘A Face in the Crowd’ song:
Our first date; Spring 1974. Fate: it can't be denied, no matter what winding road intercepts.
Thunder – ‘Love Walked In’ song:
Building a life together - our Wedding Night; August 1974; Bob had to work the next day. I never - for 1 moment - regretted marrying young. I KNEW what I WANTED ðŸ˜‰
Heart – ‘Magic Man’ song:
Adding 1 more life to the population count; Fall, 1975.
Paul Anka – 'You're Having My Baby' song:
Touchdown at home after our impulsive California Coors Beer Run; Summer 1976.
Jameson Rogers & Luke Combs – 'There's A Cold Beer Calling My Name' song:
A very thankful Thanksgiving. Bob was finally home after a lengthy hospital stint following his broken thighbone incident; Fall, 1978.
Carole King – ‘Home Again’ song:
Easter on Oak St.; Spring 1984. Our daughter Stacey, & me and Bob.
Celine Dion – ‘Because You Loved Me’ song:
Bob and me; 1996. I sure miss those cuddles ...
Shania Twain – ‘You’re Still The One’ song:
Campout at Rainbow Park; Fall, 1997. Me, Bob, and our graddaughter Alyna.
Gerry Rafferty – ‘Right Down The Line’ song:
Poker Night on Claddagh Road, Castle Rock; Fall 2000. We were feeling good – Bob had won every hand, and the beer was flowing. LOL.
Kenny Rogers – ‘The Gambler’ song:
Bob, Alyna, & me in Longbeach; 2004. That is my natural red hair color; green always brought it out. And Bob liked redheads and the challenging attitude that came with it ðŸ˜Š
Iron Butterfly – ‘In A Gadda Da Vida’ song:
My King Bee always treated me like his Queen - he even allowed me my wolf, Precious; Kelso, 2005. Bob was the BEST man for me: Elohim was gracious when He blessed me with Bob for 44 years.
Iron Butterfly – ‘Most Anything You Want’ song:

I have gone to my Blog Page Archive, and videoed the entire 2019 Post (shown at start of this post) for their viewing: they want to know, and I want them to see the face of the man that still holds my heart.

I want them to know that Faith in Yeshua is what carries us through when our legs buckle and our hearts tremble.

I see a song being birthed tonight😊

Thursday, October 13, 2022

LEMONS

What a day!

It started out okay …

But before noon had arrived it had become a lemon ☹

I was planning on spending all day with my friends at Oak Point; so, after dressing my body and face, I grabbed a flavored coffee and headed into town to fill the gas tank (I plan on being in Graysriver tomorrow, and the tank was low) and that’s when the easy-peasy day turned into a lemon 😉

I pulled into the gas terminal … and could not get the locking gas cap off.

Seriously.

I tried for a good 15 minutes before I finally gave up, pulled back onto the main road – and backtracked to O’Reilly’s Auto Supplies: there was no help there at all >:-(

So, I turned back towards town – and crossed the border into Kelso, pulling in at Dick Hanna’s Toyota to pick some male brains, there. Eureka! I struck gold 😊

When I arrived and walked into the building, a fella who worked there opened the door for me and asked if I was there for an appointment, I said, “Yes”. He asked if I had a scheduled appointment, I said, “No” – and followed that reply up with, “actually, I have a question that I hope will have a simple answer. My locking gas cap won’t come off, and I need it to come off so I can fill my tank. When it turns, it sounds like it’s stripped.” He heard me out, then said, “Let’s have a look; if it absolutely won’t come out, we may have to break it into pieces; which means you’ll need to buy another cap. I said, “Buying another cap is fine with me: I just need to be able to put gas in the tank”. He followed me out the Highlander; I flipped the tank flap cover open and handed him my key. He got the cap off in less than a second (!), and said, “That’s what I thought the problem was.” So, I asked him how he did it, and he showed me – then I tried it myself, just to be sure it was okay, again. Then, I thanked him, hopped into the car, and drove off 😊

He said that over time the lock shifts with use, and the cap has to be reset.

Locking gas cap issues.
Praying a blessing on Dan - the Man. LOL

I arrived at my Oak Point destination late, but that was okay; the main thing was to get together for fun.

And we did: and Ruby and Jacob showed up (I had never met them before – I like them!) Ruby has a very good voice, and can sing Acapella perfectly; Jacob was just there to add support, and visit with his father 😊

When I left, Lynn loaded me down with yumminess (he loves to cook, and no one goes away without something) – so, I told him, “You are going to make me fat with all your good food! I’m going to put a little sign on my scales that reads: “BLAME LYNN!” And we all laughed.

I am truly thankful for where my life is, at this point in time.

Wednesday, September 21, 2022

ATTITUDE OF POSITIVE EXPECATION

The months are getting longer, but the days are getting shorter.

The shorter days are getting cooler.

Fall is arriving – tomorrow is actually the First Day of Fall.

So, this morning while drinking my morning coffee, I ran a list of things through my thoughts that have to get done before frost arrives; last year Jack Frost came early, and I’m hoping to outwit him this year 😉

It’s a tight-rope walk. The nights are definitely cooling down – but the afternoons are still quite warm (mid-70’s to upper 80’s). So, while drinking my coffee and contemplating what needs doing, I decided to wash the spotty dust off the car: surprise rainfall at surprising locales on my drives had pitted the dusty residue (from dusty gravel driveways) on the Highlander. It needed washing. I may be able to get another washing in … but if sneaky Jack decides to repeat what he did last year, at least the car got washed today; before frosty weather makes it dangerous to do so until warmer Spring days.

After that task was completed, I hauled the garbage bins back from the pick-up curb. I also took the pruning shears out of the shed and gave the decorative maple tree out front a trim; new-growth-limb suckers were looking unattractive – and overhanging limbs were seriously overstretching the curbside. All that needed to be cut back. I took out some dead limbs, too: and ended up promptly filling the emptied garbage bin half full, again. Oh well …

Then, I gathered all my potted geraniums off the front porch and trimmed those back so they fit nicely into their overwintering bins placed in the carport breezeway. I transplanted the trimmings and set them in a livingroom window, so I have ‘spares’ if some of my potted plants die (some do, no matter how safely they are stored); some of the original red flowering stock is 29 years old; the fancier strains are somewhere around 10 years old: nothing lasts forever – eventually things need to be replaced with younger stuff 😉

After placing the transplants in the window bin, I noticed that one of my cactuses have blossomed! It’s early, but it’s nice to see 😊

Geranium transplants.
Early-blossoming White Christmas Cactus.

Tonight, is the night I drive across the boundary line, and spend time with my Kelso friends – I was pushing it timewise: I had just enough time to wash the dirt out from under my fingernails (the polish was ruined, and no time to fix that), and wash/dry my hair, before I had to rush out of the house and across town.

I like spending time with these new friends … and there’s space for them in my life because I am currently rearranging some things in my life. And that’s okay. Life is always changing course, and we have to go with the flow: things change, people change – life goes on.

Different Depths of Love Post:

It was a busy day today.

It was a day rife with an attitude of positive expectations.

It was a day of satisfied accomplishment, and self-encouragement, that feeds hope for this new life of mine.

Sunday, September 11, 2022

'VALLERINA’ ~ Shabbat

Today, was a busy restful day; that sounds contradictory, but it’s true just the same 😊

It started out with breakfast, up Spruce Creek – but first coffee: but on my way there, I pulled over at that busy construction site about one block from my home; and said to the two weekend workers, “I drive past here every day, so today I decided to stop and ask you a question – I gotta ask because it’s driving me crazy not knowing: what is going in, here?” The head guy started laughing, and said, “Well, we don’t want you to go crazy (hahaha): a Mobile Home Park is going to be put here.” I asked, “Like Heron Pointe?” And he said, “Yep.”

We’ll see … contractors are like politicians – they only tell half the truth of a situation.

This gauzy blouse may not remain in my closet cache; I like it, but it looks out of place on my frame ...
All of me was 'Violet' colored today: makeup & clothing. The violet mascara actually {showed} :-)
Pulling over; and asking questions about this construction site.
First Pumpkin-Spice Latte of the Season ...
Breakfast, up Spruce Creek; I brought half home, and had it for Supper.
'Vallerina': guys – LOL!

Heading back home after breakfast, I stopped at Stella to watch the fishing boats in the river: as I got back in the Highlander, the Highland Festival was mentioned on the radio; so, I drove right past Heron Point, and didn’t park until I crossed the invisible border and parked at Tam O’Shanter Park 😉

Fishing boats up and down the Columbia River; Stella-WA
Zoomed in fishing boats off Willow Grove.

I only stayed an hour at the festival because wildfire smoke was so thick in the air that everything experienced out of doors was done under a heavy cloud of smoke that made it seem like you were looking at life through the lens of a pair of amber lensed sunglasses.

I had just walked through my front door at home, when the phone notified me that I had a missed call: so, I returned the call 😉

And was immediately glad I did!

I was being invited to a Messianic person’s house – oh boy!

The four of us enjoyed lively conversations, and a budding friendship (I was invited to a return visit 😊). I also found out at that cozy gathering, that the wildfire smoke was blowing into Kelso and Longview from Kalama.

Kelso from Kalama; 12 minutes.

Today was a great ending to the Shabbat; and a wonderful way to welcome the new week.

*Continued tomorrow.