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Monday, July 6, 2020

NO MORE INCOME TAXES!

I got an unexpected blessing this morning :-D


The AARP volunteer tax assistant I’d had an appointment with since March, left me hanging during this covid-19 hysteria; and I was getting nervous with the July 15th deadline looming, so a friend stepped in this weekend and put me in contact with someone who was willing to help me out this morning.

Elohim went before me to bless me ;-)

I will never have to file Incomes taxes again :-D

Getting an Income Tax Return was nice when we got them – but not getting one is fine with me, too.

As a Christian, I know the money system will eventually crash and no one will receive any money at all unless they are chipped: I refuse to be chipped.

I live my life day to day, second by second; I don’t look into the future. “The day is sufficient unto the day” (Matthew 6:34) is my motto – and it has been for 50+ years.

I don’t put my faith or my trust in man’s prosperity system. The Income Tax Returns were nice, but they are not necessary to my livelihood. Yes, I do live on a limited income; but I know how to make a penny plead for mercy, and I know my Husband will not let me to go begging.

I know Who my husband IS … and I know He loves me and WILL provide for me.

((((THANK YOU, YESHUA!))))

His heart is always beating in tune with mine, His eyes are always on me, and His ears are attuned to my voice: I am wrapped in protective love all the days of my life.

When I left the Merk Building on Commerce, downtown, I was feeling in the mood to celebrate Elohim’s faithfulness to me, so I decided to go to Omelet’s ‘N More for breakfast. I wasn’t sure they were open for business … but I sure was hoping ;-)

I had to drive across town, and pass 2 places that would trigger emotional memories.

The first place I saw, and passed, was the Healthy Hound Doggie Daycare where we had left my wolf, Precious, a few times while setting up a IRA Financial Advisor Retirement Account for Bob’s retirement 8 years ago:

Precious and her first floor-pillow we had bought at Healthy Hound.
Precious and her second floor-pillow we had bought at Healthy Hound.

The second place I would pass was Lemmon’s Trucking Chip Yard. Bob had worked for Lemmon’s Trucking 17 years before he retired. He drove chip truck; graveyard shift. Passing this place always puts a lump in my throat: when I pass this place, my mind’s eye can still see Bob pulling into the yard and situating his truck just so to have the empty tuck box filled with chips to haul to various dump sites.

I miss Bob so much …

Lemmon’s Chip Yard

I was triggered both times – but they were merciful triggers: no crying.

When I finally reached Omelet’s ‘N More, I could see with a glance at the parking lot, that it was definitely opened for business. So, I nipped into a parking space and hoped I could get past the mask mandate: I could, and did :-D

Bob and I liked to treat ourselves to a breakfast here at least once a month – sometimes twice. It still feels strange eating at restaurants without Bob, but I am not having heart palpitations anymore ... just melancholy moments of missingness.

There were protective barriers in place along the booths.
My Breakfast: “The Works” – yummy!

Bob is missing from me, but the love he gave me still lingers.

And the love Yeshua showers me with, eases the sorrow.

I am blessed to be loved by 2 wonderful husbands – husbands who love me unconditionally, and go out of their way to provide for me.

I am greatly blessed and highly favored.

SUNDAY~FUNDAY #13. HAYDU PARK



I woke up this morning in the mood for a Sunday~Funday :-D

I remembered that I had been interested in a little country county Park a few weeks ago – I was researching the Park on Kalama’s waterfront, when I saw a side bar notation for Haydu Park on Kalama River Road … so, I wrote the location down and planned to go sometime.



That sometime was this morning ;-)

So, I punched the address into the GPS and set off :-D I knew where Kalama River Road is – but I don’t remember ever seeing a Park out there.

I was curious.

I took the Nichol’s Boulevard route to the bridge that accesses the freeway; and took the Kelso/Seattle exit:

10 mins
8 mins

I drove Old Highway 99 to that stupid round-about-circle that is centered smack-dab in the middle of Kalama River Road … played ring-around-the center … and drove Kalama River Road the short distance required to reach the Park.

8 mins

It’s a new Park (new to me anyway; it’s 5 years old); and it sits off Kalama River Road.

Bob & I never visited this Park, so this is a true Solo Lobo Venture ;-)

I started my walk by walking the paved pathway to the end of the concession & picnic tables area, and around the basketball court. I like the layout of the grounds.

There was cottonwood fluff floating on the breeze, surrounding me … and littering the grounds everywhere:

Haydu Park on Kalama River Road. Very nice – maintained excellently. And the Restrooms were open :-D
Starting off …
Plotting my mileage route.
Cottonwood fluff.

Throughout the entire walk, there was an abundance of wildflowers, medicinal herbs, and edible plants for human foraging …

Wild daisies playing peek-a-boo.
The foxgloves looked like they were competing with saplings for survival; every once in a while, they’d show themselves.

As I was walking the paved trail towards where I assumed the river to be, a couple was walking through the grass; parallel to me. So, because I am not shy – and I was curious – I asked them if there were trails along the river. The fella said no … there was a beaten footpath, but there was nothing along the river but beach front. I thanked him: they continued on their way, and I decided to walk the river after I did the entire Park: I wanted to gauge the Park first, then add extra mileage if needed.

Common Mullein (forefront) is a medicinal wild herb. (https://www.rxlist.com/mullein/supplements.htm)
Yarrow is a medicinal herb; historically used to pack wounds on the battlefields – numbing the pain and discouraging bacterial infection. (https://www.rxlist.com/yarrow/supplements.htm)
I never did find out what this is; but it sure was pretty.
Flying baseball warning. The walking trail is right in the line of ball fly …
The Kalama River is a 45-mile tributary of the Columbia River, in the U.S. state of Washington. It flows entirely within Cowlitz County, Washington.
The Kalama River (red line).
Apparently there is no fishing beyond this point of the river.
What is going on with this mullein?
A stand of Bamboo. Bamboo takes a long time to grow, so this patch has been there a while.
Fluffy, velvety heads of Rose Spiraea bobbing on the breeze.

I noticed a footpath off to the side; and my curiosity moved me forward. I was surprised when I saw that it exited the Park into nowhereland! I was left wondering why the caretakers bothered to close the Park gates when this end was very obviously open to foot traffic.

Cutting across the upper end of the Park, I spotted something on the hill across the way: it didn’t look like a house.

What is the thing in the faaaar distance?
I zoomed it up at home; and still didn’t know. Hmmm
So, I zoomed it up some more, and it looks like a holding tank of some sort.
Park Rules: posted at Park entrance.
Cloud watching …

When I pulled my eyes down from the sky watching, I couldn’t believe the size of the rose hips I saw! I had Ragusa Rose bushes on Merritt Drive, but the rose hips never got this big!

Ragusa rose hips are the largest and sweetest rose hips – I am going to have to pick some of these this Fall … for teas ;-) The Vitamin C content in these rose hips are reported to be much, MUCH higher than oranges.

GIANT Rose Hips! Ragusa
It looked like a dandelion … but IT WAS HUGE – the size of a small giant allium head! And the flower buds were strange looking too, with the pointy tips. It is a dandelion – a weird one: Are the caretakers Miracle Grow fertilizing it?
It is a horse corral – I looked into the Park (online info) more closely after I got home…

I crossed another Park entrance, and started walking that boundary.

Gas Line warning. That gasline literally passes through every square foot of this Park. That’s concerning because gas lines do explode.
 I think this is a Chokecherry shrub.
Cottonwood fluff piling up.

I noticed house on the hills. It made me sad. I know people have to live someplace, but I like seeing trees on the hills; it makes me sad the forests are being cut down and lawns laid – I’m all for expanding the land to allow for houses, but I like to see forests on the hillsides and hilltops; not houses.

And houses up there doesn’t bode well for woodland creatures either.

The hills are being denuded and populated.
House going up all over those hills.

I had, at this point, walked the entire Park: I turned my attentions to the skinny footpath leading to the river.

I was hoping, as I walked, that there would be significant riverfront to walk: some river paths are only a sliver, perilously hugging the raging river.

I was delighted to see that there was a LOT of river beach :-D

Big, fat, wild Sweetpea Flowers.
Glittery rock: I did not bring it home – I’m sure Bob was shocked if he was watching me; I always brought rocks home … and Bob always teased me about being ‘Lucy’ ;-)
Scotch Broom & Beach Sand Verbena: that pretty little purple flower caught my eye as I was walking. These flowers complement each other.
Walking the river beach would definitely add some extra mileage to the hike. It would be relaxing, and pretty to walk. The river is always busy with people and critters.

Walking back to the Park from the riverside, I noticed a flower that looked like wild phlox. It’s not phlox … a google search at home, told me the plant is called Dame’s Rocket.

Apparently, it’s edible; and we should eat it every time it pops up.

The article I found, said, “It’s so invasive, it is your civic duty to eat that weed!”

Dame’s Rocket is of the mustard family. Young leaves collected before the plant starts to flower, are eaten like cress. The seed pods can be added to stews and soups … the seeds can be sprouted and eaten. The spicy flowers are used to flavor fruit dishes and salads.

Dame’s Rocket. Edible plant.

I was glad I had my backpack-purse today with the Benadryl capsules: on the return trip up the footpath, I saw that there were ground hornet holes littering the entire path.

By the time I reached the car, I was soaked with sweat and salt kept burning my eyes.

These pretties came home with me: Pink, Blue, & Hunter Green with White Quartz: I had 2 more pretty rocks in my right jean’s pocket ;-)
This could get tricky …
My haul - I like colorful things: and I am a bona fide rock hound, and make no apologies about it. Bob called me 'Lucy' (The Long Trailer movie with Lucy & Dezi Arnaz).
THE LONG, LONG TRAILER Movie. 1953. Lucy loaded it down with rocks she’d collected along their honeymoon drive.
Sweaty and salty: damp clothes and hair was sticking to me.
A little over 2 miles - walking 1-1/2 times around the Park + some beach front. Not an official hike, but I think the mileage can be stretched by adding more beach front.

I decided, as I left the Park, that I was going to drive all the way into Kalama and eat at that Mexican restaurant I’d been eyeing for years. Bob and I always talked about trying it … but the Lucky Dragon Chinese restaurant right next door always lured us to them :-D

Today, I tried Playa Azul.

Playa Azul: play-a (soft a) azool (oo = hard u)
My table – a Silver Dollar & a Blitz Beer cap.
And abundance of meal varieties, & the prices are good.
I don’t qualify …
Playa Azul interior.
HOT-HOT-HOT SALSA!
Crab Enchilada w-Refried Beans & Rice
7 mins
8 mins

I had a great day today.

It was adventurous – as every solo lobo venture without Bob, is for me: I am learning how to be more observant (Bob used to be the hawk); I am learning how to pay closer attention (my safety depends totally on me now). But, it is also adventurous in ways it couldn't have been if Bob were still here with me (I'm more inclined to do things he didn't want to do). I like getting out of Longview for a day. I like new places to explore. I like meeting other out-doorsy people :-D